Dating my spouse
Your own emotions are erratic, and it would be easy for you to get infatuated with anyone who treats you with dignity, respect, and warmth.
Have you noticed the number of people who get married the day after they are divorced? If the separation period is a time to seek reconciliation, why spend energy in an activity that leads to divorce and remarriage? We are still married while we are separated, and we ought to so live, whether or not our spouse complies.
“If you are not free to marry, you are not free to date!
When you start dating someone else while you are separated, you make reconciliation more difficult. Unfortunately there are those of the opposite sex who would like to take advantage of your vulnerability.
I know this is difficult to accept, but I believe the present trend of open dating immediately after separation must be deterred.
Such activity encourages and contributes to the increasing divorce rate. Develop friends, but refuse romantic involvement until the fate of your marriage is determined.
Reconnection takes advantage of this subconscious process.Remember, dating is supposed to be fun and listening to your spouse whine and complain about you is not fun.You can discuss the issues during the other sex and a half days of the week.As days turned into months, we officially started dating and never looked back.Six years later, we bought a house and got married.